Love Episode Two

Learning to love is an endless journey throughout my life. If there is a psychologist who can give me BIG tips, I guess things are easier for me. Surprisingly, I found the relationship articles written by Dr. Grace Cornish Livingstone (one of America’s foremost Relationship Experts)very fruitful. Let's share one of her articles 'Why Use Your Finance to Buy His Romance?' together!

I've never thought of paying for a man's presence but things may change over my boosting age. Dr. Grace did not advise readers not to engage themselves into a "pay for play" relationship directly at the beginning. Instead, she shared her real case observation and analysis by the use of powerful word expression like 'cry with excruciating pain', 'a cash-machine for a gigolo', 'sweat at a nine-to-five job when I can get a Honey to dish out some money', 'leaves you broke, alone, and sorry' etc. To me as a reader, I feel impressed with what she said about love relationship.

Furthermore, I guess results from surveys are meaningful for readers in all situation. The survey summary of the three hundred women brings forth the notion of why women are persuaded to use finance to maintain men's romance. If I were the one who was surveyed, I would have known myself more after reading the four categories of personality types. OH! I'll then start questioning myself: Do I really love a man with THIS personality? 

I totally agree to what Dr. Grace mentioned in the last paragraph. Learning to love and value yourself is the key to a healthy love. Love is founded on trust and selfless care but absolutely NOT MONEY. Thank Dr. Grace for giving me this very last sentence - ... instead of one who tries to squeeze your finances dry like an orange in a juice extractor. It really strikes into my heart!

Love Episode One

Love is all around us. The most common type of love appears between males and females. Last night, I read an online love story. It is no more than ordinary but in fact it gives us room to think about 'Love'.  It may be true that most of the world's biggest and famous love stories don't have happy endings, yet they are just a fabrication. What about the reality? I guess the author's answer is still negative.  

The story attracts me in the way it is presented. A true story narrated by a girl who is waiting for a guy to love her. Through her words, you can feel how anxious and eager she is to develop a relationship with Lee. I feel pity for her not because Lee rejected her but the lost faith and courage in her. Her experience teaches us a lesson: It may be coincidence that love falls on you and your lover but somehow timing can drive you away from his arm. Why not learn to treasure your love now? Catch the best timing to say I LOVE YOU.  

People who believe in Internet love may have similar stories. They are readers who share similar feelings as the girl in this story. Either or not they succeed in an online love relationship (actually there are lots of happy endings), at least they learned and experienced.  Love across boundaries is not easy but possible. Imagine how powerful technology is to link people all over the world!

You may start questioning yourself like what the author does! I guess the more questions you have for yourself, the more critical you will be on handling love relationship. Actually, the author reminds me of my past experience. To change friendship into love relationship is not rare but most people fail because they are afraid of losing a friend. I agree to the author's intention of keeping an important friend, yet personally I find it more important to face my true feeling towards love.

"To be continued" happens to be the last sentence in the story. As a reader, I prepare to wait and see if fortune gives her a different story. Good luck!